What do U do when.....???

                              Today, lets take a new kind of example that I faced in my life. I don't know if u would have ever faced this situation, but I find myself almost friends with these kind of moments. 
                          
                             Please try to imagine this. Suppose, u are sad or angry on someone close and want that person to talk to u or ask u why u are sad, or at least understand u. U wait for a while and later, u find that the person doesn't even seem to know that u are sad on him/her. That person thinks that you are sitting with a gloomy face without any reason, which upsets him/her. So, that person's face also becomes pale and he/she sits or sleeps without trying to talk to u. What would you actually do in such a case? Will you become more angry or would you forget about yourself and take care of that person's smile. (Remember that the person is really close to u.). Anyone who happens to pass by this post, please pleaase try to imagine yourself and give a comment about what u would do. I really need your ideas. :)

                               What I always find myself doing is : Forget that I was even sad and force myself to smile and try hard to make the other person smile. Perhaps I have a problem that I can't see anyone sad in front of me and especially, if I am the cause. I just forget everything else. I don't know whether that's right or not. But, I believe that that's another form of LOVE. I love the person and so, I can't see that person being sad even for a while....so much that I even forget about myself. 


Lets talk about this and decide whether this is LOVE or something else. Come, lets fall in love.... Love is beautiful !!!

Fall in love with your hobby !!!

                                         So, what did u fall in love with?  If u are still waiting to be in love, another idea for u. How about loving something that we are doing? Anything… any work, any task we are given, any hobby that we have, any job we do, any passion that dwells in us..............Yes, passion is love already. Anything we love to do in leisure is called hobby…................So, just if we turn our entire life into a hobby….............How will it look like? Can we believe that our life is a hobby for us…............. We craft our lives…bit by bit, just as we work on some craft work…..............Lets craft our lives as we would like it to be.............The perfect life!!! Yes, while crafting some déecor items also, we tend to make mistakes, we can’t be perfect like a professional, but still we have the satisfaction that it is something that we have made ourselves…..............with our own hands. This satisfaction disappears all the imperfections. Similarly, if we try to craft our lives, however worse our life becomes, we will still love it perfectly, because that would be our creation..........with our own hands.

                                        Regarding our job, it is always said, when a little bit of skill and lot of love is involved, we can expect a masterpiece. So, why not let’s fall in love with our jobs, whatever we are doing at the present moments. Let’s fall in love with that.

How to fall in love with yourself???

                                                            So, how many of you fell in love with everything you see….? This was an exercise period…. But I am back to give you another little tip on love. If you succeeded or if you failed in loving anything and anybody, the new mantra is to love yourself. There are many books and magazines preaching this and truly, this is the most important part of love. Love yourself!!! Love what you are…...............

                         Stand before the mirror and fall in love with yourself. Imagine that you are a different person and the person in the mirror is the original you!!! Won’t you love yourself? You are the best. Trust me …. In your eyes, you should be the best person in the world. Just like happiness starts from you, similarly, love also starts from yourself. If you can’t love yourself, it means that you don’t like yourself. Why??? It means you are feeling guilty of something that you have in you. Change that character of yours, Try to be the person that you would fall in love with…….. Then, we shall see, how can refrain from loving yourself.

Come, lets fall in love with ourselves!!!   Love is beautiful!!!

Can we love non-living things too???

In my last post, I talked about loving anybody and everybody u see…… There is something more to love, not just people…. Love your dog, love your cat, love a flower in your balcony, love a tree, and love a bird…. Hell! There are a thousand things to love…. Not just living beings, we can love even non-living things too…. Love the book, love your computer, love your bed, love your home,............love anything that you see….......Care for them!!! 

                                    When I was a kid, I used to love trees, love a wall at the backyard of my house. I used to talk to the wall (as though it had solutions to all my problems)…. I talked to the trees, as though they listened to me, I talked to the mud as though they understood me the most… and, believe me, it used to relieve me a lot… All my frustrations seemed to go and eventually, I knew what the problems before were............ When we know our problems exactly, we can easily find ways to do something about them….. anyways, let’s not talk about problems…. Let’s talk about loving anything.

                                    I will share with you another stupid example of the small me…!!! I loved God….    

Lord Krishna was my favourite…........And I talked to him every day about everything….We have a festival called Janmashtami, which is known as Lord Krishna’s birthday. It is celebrated by keeping fasts and worshipping in temple. But, what I used to do was…. I had a paper photo of Lord Krishna. I used to wake up in the morning, take the photo close to me and shout out in his ears, “Happy Birthday friend”.  And I used to make a greeting card for him and paste it on his photo. And I used to ask my Mom to cook nice dishes to celebrate the birthday. Sometimes Mom did and sometimes she just ignored me…. (Actually, I don’t find it so stupid even now, because I still feel that he used to talk to me at that time. Nowadays, I have grown up and he only listens, and nods his head, but does not reply back. ) But, now I feel that this thing is called love. I loved Him.  Similarly, I have experienced that we can love anything in this world, even if it is non-living............  Love innocently and purely…….........

 Lets fall in love with the world…...........Love is beautiful !!!

Go out and love someone today

                                    Love is best described as caring for someone from the inner heart. Getting worried for someone’s happiness is love. Taking care of someone’s health is love. Not being able to see anyone’s sad face is love. Forgetting about own pain while tending to someone else is love. Can u give an example where we can see all these at the same time?

                                    Yes! The example is what I have already talked about in my first post. What better example to talk about while talking about love. A mother….. .. .. And a newborn baby…. 

Just imagine the scene! How the mother looks at the baby, how she is gets worried when the baby even sneezes, how she admires the gift of God, how she would forget about herself when the baby cries, how she runs around to get food for her child…… All of these are love. How pure that love is!  How beautiful this world would have become if everyone loved each other with this purity….

                                      Let’s try with a pure heart to love every person we know.… Love can never be bad…. Love your Mom like ur baby, love your grandparents, love ur friend, love ur life partner, love ur siblings, love a beggar, love someone unknown, love any random person u meet in a day…. But, while loving anyone, try to feel that the person you are loving is your child and you are caring for that person …selflessly, without any expectations, without any hope that the person will love you back,……. Just try this once and do it with a clean heart….. I promise you will feel "divine"…. Try it and give me the feedback for this exercise…. Now, while you try this, let me go out and love someone…..!!!

Please post comments so that I can take u as an example in my next post…. Lets love the world.......…Love is beautiful !!!

 

A little introduction.....

                   Finally, after a long period of wishing and hoping, this blog comes out from my heart productions…. With tons and tons to talk about, I am just sooo confused on where to start……. This blog is honestly and directly from my heart……………….. .. .. with no additives.. .. .. wishing to spread the message of love.

                   LOVE!!! How sweet a word! Well, no one can ever explain that. There is no exact definition to it. We can have different definitions considering different cases. In this blog, I will try to show different forms of love (in my vision)J. A simple example to start with….. .. .. .. Love is best described by the feeling of a mother for her baby. This is the simplest one….. .. .. With time, I promise to show you novel forms.

                   Why am I writing this blog??? Well, that’s really complicated. I am a simple girl with no special qualities other than love. I live for love, breathe for love, sleep for love and dream of love….. .. .. God has given this in such abundance that I am not able to keep this to myself. I need to spread this out to the whole world. This is the only way I think I can justify the God’s gift. And the best way to start spreading love is by doing this…….. .. ..writing about my thoughts. This blog is all about love, Come, Lets fall in love with the world!!! Love is beautiful.